Teratak Opah...26july

Happy 36^th  anniversary  for both mak n ayahanda.. may ALLAH bless both of u, us..

n teratak opah….percantuman dua individu  yang nyatanya berbeza dari segi keturunan,budaya,cara hidup,dialek, akhirnya menjadi '1' kerana adanya persefahaman?kasih sayang?jodoh?faith?Dan kemudian lahirla generasi-generasi hasil dr perkahwinan ini.. so arbitrary….

What is the marriage?

MARRIAGE is the state or relationship of being husband and wife. It is also known a wedding, the ceremony of becoming husband and wife…Who is a couple should not enter into marriage without thinking about it seriously!! THAT’S A COMMITMENT!!BIG COMMITMENT..HUGE..VERY HUGE..

the responsibility by Giving it the strong support that u promised…

Do you believe in marriage? Do u believe in commitment?don’t ever think it easy… people always said, marriage like gambling..(u guys ingat main tikam ,baling dadu

or just like poker?)you dont even know what the real things will happen..Just like a box of chocolate..u don’t even knw what real inside.. What you hv 2 know .. just play safe and always remember its involving 2 big heart..afterdat..byk lagi hati yg mau dijaga.. Once u in dis era..u really have 2 strive 4it..u d 1 who play d game..

   Beside its not assurance of happy life..Pencaturan dua kehendak yg menjadi 1 boleh menjadi lebih baik atau lebih buruk…

hmm.. perlu ada toleransi

kan

?memahami

kan

?

satu-satu.  .how they blooming their marriage without any problem??

fake!!problem asam garam kehidupan? Maybe for some people..

      untuk anak2 yang hidupnya dengan keluarga bermasalah…bercerai–berai?, ditinggal ayah? ayah ku kawin lagi? hehe..mak bapak asik gaduh?tak gheti nak berbaik? so nk depend yg mana?.emakku tinggalkan keluarga kerana ikut boyprend or x thn ngn bad habit bapak? Consequence meninggalkan kesan buruk for their anak2..akibatnya.. their anak2  afraid of marriage…..and don’t believe in marriage.. ME?  I just wish 2b wif some1 very wasatiah, very understanding, very fatherly…and very-very….

Nowdays we can c a lots of spinster yg mampu survive without marriage..

not because they r egoistic..but if marriage only intense to disaster.. so why should we allow it? PEOPLE don’t want to get marry if they want to get suffer..They want happiness.. Prosperity, loveliness n so on.or maybe they don’t find d suit 1….

just a superstitious 2 make life so meaningful J makin dalam

ur

‘pusat’ makin jauh

ur

jodoh..meaning dat

ur

soulmate org jauh..(asalnyer)..hahaha…make sense..kalo diikutkan ngn my family history….me again? Yeah…same like u folks!!! Lost…

In d other hand, kesian juga biler tgk parents have to selamatkan their perkahwinan demi anak2 sdgkan both of them x happy at all…as a child..u have to please

ur

parents..bkn sngkan? & parents should aware of their children’s satisfaction….

Im not blaming anybody..n im not sciencethodology follower but in dis case.. I c, I learn, I understand their situation.. Paranoid! ..s.o.r.y..dat true! And very hard to find few good man..and vice versa nowdays!!! not 2choosy..But choosy in make sensed.

perkahwinan utk melengkapkan kehendak dan kemahuan antara lelaki dan perempuan… and its doesn’t matter if you will marry at the late age.. 30?28?35?40?or in early age.. and how old r u? r u prepared yet for setlling down?as long as u happy & ready for it n no matter when…just bring it on!

Sekadar renungan.. 8 jenis lelaki di dunia..

Hanya 4 saja yg tinggal sbb??

1)      Lelaki baik lagi gila Dadah.

2)      Lelaki baik sudah masuk Penjara

3)      Lelaki baik gila Lelaki – so pity! Love so blind,right?

4)      Lelaki baik masuk Serenti – biler nk abis blaja ni?

Yang tinggal hanya

1)      lelaki  baik ..mmg baik..

2)      lelaki baik tp xde usha untuk naikkan taraf hidop

3)      lelaki baik yg so-so- suka bohong?suka tipu?oh yeah.. Sweet talkerla nih..nk mengena jer.

4)      lelaki baik.. TETAPI  SUAMI ORG?- nauzubillah…

Perempuan pun x terlepas sama gak- sometimes… I ADMIT it!mmg ujud.. sbb perangai buruk ada di mana2kan..iman tak dpt dpt diwarisi..yg baik utk yg baik.. dan kalo dah sudah disuratkan dengan yg menduga…itu faith!so pray 4 your success..

Back to d topic!!! Our (my siblings n I )wish dat .. my parent’s marriage will blooming eva after,not matter wat happened..n live happy eva after..even kiter tau semua ini kuasa ALLAH. ’KUNFAYAKUN’ bkn sng nk bina empayar nih for all these years.. Hopefully I can make it thou’ no matter with whom… insya-allah.. …n for those who read my humble mumbling freaking blog...pray for my mum’s health. She will have her 1^st eyes operation on 21^st august. Thank you..takut gak.. hope everything going smoothly..

Beside I cant denied dat I love this spooky but lovely ‘TERATAK OPAH’ S Family..cant imagine be alive w/o u..

p/s: al- fatihah to arwah HANI MOHSEIN.. ajal maut di tgn tuhan..:(.

-Sincerely-

Lots of like K.Y.R.I.E